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Brandy's avatar

This makes so much sense! I feel like a light bulb just went off in my head. Feminist women have taken over the Democratic Party to an extent. There's definitely some feminization going on in the party that is familiar when I think about it this way. As a woman, the victim mentality, the "bossiness," some of the manipulation (especially of language and emotions), the kind of mothering/smothering instinct...these are all stereotypical of women (for a reason) Maybe that's what has turned me off. It's kind of like, "Look, I already had a mom. I don't need another." I'm not trying to dump on women, but just speaking on maybe having a psychological reaction that we might not be understanding. Plus, I have around me at all times a husband and 2 grown sons. When I feel like men are getting short-changed, my mothering instinct kicks in and I feel the need to vote with them to defend them. I know, I'm a little kooky. Haha.

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Anti-feminism has been a huge driver of recent younger males’ disaffection from the Democratic Party. I started following the Jordan Peterson/Joe Rogan/Sam Harris space around 2017 at the recommendation of some much younger friends (I’m currently 76), and I noticed that criticism of “feminism” was an absolutely central theme. This was something that had been brewing for years - I remember its tiny beginnings back in the 1970s with such things as the Men’s Right’s Association out of St. Paul, Minnesota, but the movement was always fairly subterranean and unheard. There’s always been a great deal of legitimacy to the complaints - this wasn’t t mostly a criticism of “equal rights” per se but was rather directed at the hypocrisies and questionable claims of feminism - women constantly “marrying up”, a lack of acknowledgment that men “genetically” tended to choose the difficult and dangerous jobs and thus get paid more, certain “outrageous” divorce settlements, and the like. Democrats generally brooked no tolerance of “feminism” whatsoever and so the movement, so to speak, just grew and grew to the point where it’s now very widespread and politically significant in terms of male party-switching, yet organs like the New York Times, the New Yorker, etc., continue to dismiss all manifestations of it as the product of “incels”, “toxic masculinity”, “misogynists”, etc. We’re still a long way from the official Democratic Party acknowledging the legitimacy of many of these sentiments, so the Party will continue to bleed male support for some time to come, and it will continue to cost them elections.

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